Confession...in our social ineptitude (we're old enough to wear it like a badge, now!), Brock and I just about gave up on Facebook and Twitter. Neither one of us quite 'get' it. In person, we've finally come into our own when we can look you in the eye and read all the social signals...but on Social Media, it's just hard. No matter the place - Facebook, Twitter, a forum, or heaven help us Google Plus...I always feel like I'm back in 9th grade trying to get the high school seniors to talk to me! Nonetheless, Brock and I have set an early New Year's resolution. And we're giving Facebook … [Read more...]
Social Media…the New Place to Be Awkward
This post may contain affiliate links. Read our full disclosure here.Encouraging an ADHD Child
This post may contain affiliate links. Read our full disclosure here.Let's face it. ADHD can be discouraging. Even though they're wonderful, our children often end up feeling less than perfect. They march to a different drummer, their problems often overshadow their successes, and their sense of overwhelm often eclipses the simple joys of life. How do you encourage your ADHD child, and help her to develop and maintain a positive self image? Share in the comments below. Homework can be one of the most discouraging times for our kids. Find out how to "Wake Up from the Homework Nightmare". … [Read more...]
The Power (and Peril) of Praise
This post may contain affiliate links. Read our full disclosure here.A longtime friend and subscriber forwarded an article to me recently entitled, "How Not to Talk to Your Kids - The Inverse Power of Praise". In a nutshell, the article states that in order to be truly effective, praise needs to be specific - and true. I recommend that you read the article, which cites research which sort of blows holes into some of the long standing beliefs we have about the way we build self-esteem. That's why we praise our kids. "You're so smart...clever...interesting...beautiful..." I do it. You do it. But is it truly helpful? Could it even be counter-productive? The … [Read more...]